Conversation for Keeps :)

I happened to have a conversation with my new guy friend; the one who fell with a kid =)).. 

just the usual conversation with a buddy until wee hours..

I did not expect such a great companion will come up, but guess what,

i was wrong in not expecting such thing..

In a short period of time (it was like just 3hours,i think), we already had talked a lot of things..
some are for laughs,and most are serious topics..

There is one thing that I've realized at the end of our conversation..that is,

one should always think in two different sides..the positive side, and the negative side..

Think in a Positive way..

When we think positively, 
our thoughts keep us awake and it excites us to achieve a specific goal..

Think in a Negative way..

When we think negatively,
our thoughts make us see beyond what we should expect and it leads us to the reality,
which i think helps us to be able to know how to handle different cases or situations..

But this doesn't necessarily mean that the positive way is the fairy tale side.. 
It's just that, when we think positively, we could only have the happy thoughts 
because all we want to see are the things that we want to happen 
without being aware to the things that might happen unexpectedly.
Tendencies are, we became frustrated and often would not know 
how to handle such situations that are beyond our expectations..

In the middle of our conversation,
it ended up having both of us the questions that we've been asking in our life..

There are some things in life that we often question..
why other people act his way, and that;
why they think this way;
why they don't know how to value people or their relationship with them;
why they kept on thinking this way...~ blah blah blah~~

There are lots of questions that neither you nor I can answer instantly
when certain situation is being discussed..

it's like watching a movie without knowing its synopsis nor have watched its trailer..
we are clueless to what will happen next,
and we are thrilled to what we think will possibly happen next..

In reality, no one knows what will happen next to every decision you made or will make..
no one knows who will understand you deeply, and who will appreciate you truly..